Trying to Settle Down in a Hookup Culture

I've always thought that I was born in the wrong era, I believe in there being someone for everyone.  I believe in loyalty and honesty.  Being with just one person and not giving up just because things get tough.  So why is it so hard to find someone who shares the same values?

We live in a hook up culture, where guys are to afraid to look bad in front of their friends, or too afraid to look whipped and girls are constantly looking for attention that as soon as their man gets a little distant or is having an off week they need to search for attention somewhere else.

I truly don't know how mankind got this bad, or how to start the change... All I know is that I want to settle down in this hook up culture ?!?